Terminal Care
Subtopic:
Breaking bad news


Breaking bad news to patients and their families is widely acknowledged as one of the most emotionally demanding and sensitive responsibilities in healthcare.
Defining “Bad News”
Bad news is any information that fundamentally and negatively alters a patient’s perception of their future. It shatters previously held expectations and hopes about their health and life trajectory.
The impact of bad news is directly proportional to the gap it creates between:
The patient’s expectations, ambitions, and future plans for their life.
The stark medical reality of their situation, as objectively assessed and communicated by healthcare professionals (Buckman, 1984).
Breaking bad news is not merely delivering information; it is akin to performing major surgery on the patient’s psyche. It inflicts a psychological injury that, while not physical, can be as profound and damaging as a physical trauma like limb amputation. Just like amputation, breaking bad news effectively requires:
Careful planning and preparation.
Adequate time allocated for the process.
A suitable and private setting to carry out this sensitive “operation” with compassion and care.
Importance of Breaking Bad News Effectively
Delivering bad news with skill and sensitivity is paramount for several crucial reasons:
Maintaining Trust: Honest and empathetic communication is essential for building and sustaining trust between healthcare providers and patients. Trust is foundational to the therapeutic relationship, particularly in challenging situations.
Reducing Uncertainty: Uncertainty is often described as one of the most difficult emotions for individuals to bear. Breaking bad news, even though painful, helps reduce uncertainty by providing clarity and a realistic understanding of the situation, allowing patients to begin to adjust.
Preventing False Hope: While hope is important, instilling false hope can be ultimately detrimental. Honest communication, even when delivering difficult news, prevents the creation of unrealistic expectations and allows patients to make informed decisions based on reality.
Facilitating Appropriate Adjustment: Breaking bad news enables patients to begin the process of appropriate adjustment, both practically and emotionally. This allows them to:
Make informed decisions about their future care, treatment options, and life planning.
Initiate the necessary emotional adaptation to their changed circumstances.
Preventing Conspiracy of Silence: Withholding bad news or creating a “conspiracy of silence” within families can be deeply damaging. Open communication:
Prevents a breakdown in family communication.
Enables mutual support among family members as they navigate challenging news together, fostering unity and shared coping.
Essential Skills for Breaking Bad News
Effectively breaking bad news requires a specific set of communication skills:
Active Listening: The ability to attentively and empathetically listen to the patient’s concerns, questions, and emotional responses is paramount.
Keen Observation: Careful observation of the patient’s verbal and nonverbal cues, emotional state, and reactions to the news is crucial for tailoring communication effectively.
Genuine Empathy: Demonstrating empathy, the capacity to understand and share the feelings of another, allows the healthcare provider to connect with the patient’s emotional experience and respond with compassion.
Articulate Communication: The ability to find and use the right words, delivered with sensitivity and clarity, is essential to convey complex and emotionally charged information in a way that is understandable and compassionate.
Barriers to Breaking Bad News
Numerous barriers can hinder effective delivery of bad news, originating from various sources:
Patient-Related Barriers:
Denial: Patients may employ denial as a coping mechanism, making it difficult for them to fully process and accept bad news.
Lack of Understanding: Medical jargon or complex explanations can create a barrier to patient understanding, especially if health literacy is a concern.
Family-Related Barriers:
Collusion: Family members, in an attempt to protect the patient, may engage in collusion, asking healthcare providers to withhold information, which can be ethically problematic and ultimately unhelpful to the patient.
Healthcare Professional-Related Barriers:
Feeling Incompetent: Healthcare providers may feel inadequately trained or unprepared to handle the emotional complexities of breaking bad news, leading to avoidance or ineffective communication.
Fear of Causing Pain: There is a natural human inclination to avoid causing emotional pain. Healthcare professionals may hesitate to deliver bad news out of fear of upsetting or distressing the patient and family.
Avoiding Blame: Healthcare professionals may subconsciously avoid breaking bad news to avoid potential blame or negative reactions from patients or families, especially if the news relates to treatment limitations or negative outcomes.
Feeling of Failure: In situations where a cure is not possible, healthcare professionals may feel a sense of personal or professional failure, making it emotionally challenging to deliver news that falls short of patient hopes for recovery.
Shielding from Distress: A well-intentioned but misguided desire to protect the patient from emotional distress can lead to withholding or sugarcoating bad news, which can be counterproductive in the long run.
Fear of Emotional Display: Healthcare professionals may feel uncomfortable or unprepared to handle strong emotional displays from patients and families, such as crying, anger, or intense sadness, leading to avoidance of emotionally charged conversations.
Time Constraints: Perceived or real time constraints in busy clinical settings can be a significant barrier. Breaking bad news effectively requires dedicated time and a focused conversation, which may be challenging to allocate in fast-paced environments.
Fear of “I Don’t Know”: Healthcare professionals may feel pressured to have all the answers and may be uncomfortable admitting uncertainty or saying “I don’t know,” even when complete certainty is not possible in medicine.
Personal Fears of Illness and Death: Healthcare professionals, like all individuals, have their own personal fears and anxieties about illness and death. These personal fears can be triggered when dealing with serious illness and mortality in patients, potentially creating an emotional barrier to open communication.
Strategies to Overcome Barriers to Breaking Bad News
Specific strategies can help healthcare professionals overcome common barriers and improve their ability to deliver bad news effectively:
Preparation is Key: Thoroughly prepare oneself before breaking bad news. This involves:
Knowing the patient’s medical condition in detail, including prognosis and treatment options.
Developing a clear communication plan for how to deliver the news, anticipate potential questions, and plan for emotional support.
Create a Supportive Environment: Establish a physical and emotional setting that is conducive to a sensitive conversation:
Choose a private and quiet location where interruptions can be minimized.
Ensure adequate privacy to facilitate open and honest communication.
Allocate sufficient time for the conversation without rushing.
Minimize distractions to maintain focus on the patient and family.
Encourage the patient and their family to bring a support person (family member, friend) with them for emotional support during the conversation.
Start by Listening Actively: Begin the conversation by actively listening to the patient and family. This involves:
Asking the patient what they already know about their condition.
Assessing what the patient wants to know and their information preferences.
Paying close attention to the specific terms the patient uses when discussing their illness, providing insights into their understanding and emotional framing.
Honesty and Directness with Compassion: Deliver the bad news with both honesty and directness, avoiding euphemisms or sugarcoating that can mislead or confuse the patient. However, balance directness with:
Respect for the patient’s feelings and emotional vulnerability.
Empathy and compassion in tone and demeanor.
Answer Questions Openly and Honestly: Be prepared to answer questions from the patient and family openly and honestly.
Acknowledge when you “don’t know” the answer to a specific question, rather than speculating or providing inaccurate information.
Commit to finding answers or seeking further information if possible.
Offer Ongoing Support: Explicitly offer ongoing support to the patient and family. Communicate clearly that:
You are there for them throughout this difficult time.
You will continue to provide care and guidance as they navigate the challenges ahead.
You will help them through this difficult time by offering resources, emotional support, and continued medical care.
Key Considerations for Breaking Bad News
Specific considerations should be taken into account when planning and conducting a conversation to break bad news:
Location – Privacy and Time:
Privacy: Prioritize a private setting to ensure confidentiality and minimize distractions.
Time: Ensure you have adequate time allocated for the conversation to avoid rushing and allow for open discussion, questions, and emotional processing.
Assess Existing Knowledge: Before delivering bad news, gauge the patient’s current understanding of their condition by:
Ascertaining what the patient already knows through open-ended questions.
Paying attention to specific terms they use, which can reveal their level of medical understanding and any misconceptions they may have.
Communication Skills – Gentle and Clear: Employ effective communication techniques:
Open-Ended Questions: Use open-ended questions to encourage the patient to talk and express their feelings and concerns.
Gentle Tone and Pacing: Use a gentle and empathetic tone of voice. Pace the delivery of information slowly, allowing time for processing and emotional absorption.
Nonverbal Communication: Utilize appropriate nonverbal communication, such as maintaining eye contact, using gentle touch if appropriate, and demonstrating attentive body language to convey empathy and support.
Consistent and Simple Language: Use consistent terminology and simple, clear language, avoiding medical jargon or overly technical terms that may confuse or overwhelm the patient.
Enable Patient Conclusions: Facilitate a process that allows the patient to come to their own conclusions about the implications of the news, rather than directly imposing interpretations or prognoses.
Truthfulness with Sensitivity:
Honesty: Never lie to a patient. Maintain honesty and transparency, even when delivering difficult information.
Gentle Delivery: Be gentle and compassionate in the actual moment of breaking the bad news, choosing words carefully and delivering information incrementally.
Hope within Reality: Offer realistic hope by focusing on what can be done, such as:
Effective symptom management and pain control.
Strategies to improve quality of life and maintain function.
Avoid False Cure Hope: Do not give false hope of a cure if a cure is not medically realistic. Focus on achievable goals and realistic expectations.
Check for Understanding: After delivering the news, actively check whether the patient has understood the information conveyed. Ask open-ended questions to assess their comprehension and address any confusion or misunderstandings.
Reassurance and Support – Ongoing Commitment: Provide strong reassurance and ongoing support to the patient and family.
Reassurance of Continued Care: Reassure them of your continued commitment to their care and well-being.
Follow-Up Appointment: Arrange a follow-up appointment to provide ongoing support, address further questions, and monitor their adjustment.
Encourage Questions: Encourage the patient to ask questions at any time, reinforcing that you are available to provide information and support as needed.
Family Presence (with Patient Consent): If the patient agrees, consider telling the patient and family together. This can:
Facilitate shared understanding and open communication within the family unit.
Allow for mutual support and shared processing of the bad news.
However, always prioritize the patient’s preference and comfort level regarding family presence during these sensitive conversations.

Methods/Protocols for Breaking Bad News
Healthcare professionals utilize structured communication protocols to effectively and sensitively deliver difficult news. Two widely recognized and helpful protocols are:
SPIKES Protocol
BREAKS Protocol
SPIKES Protocol for Breaking Bad News
SPIKES is a six-step protocol designed to guide healthcare providers in breaking bad news in a structured and empathetic manner. The acronym SPIKES stands for:
S – Setting up the Interview:
Plan and Prepare: Prioritize careful planning and preparation before the conversation. Key considerations include:
Privacy: Ensure a private and comfortable setting for the discussion, free from interruptions.
Support Persons: Ascertain if the patient wishes to have significant others (family, friends) present and accommodate their preference.
Minimize Interruptions: Silence pagers and mobile phones to minimize distractions and demonstrate focus on the patient.
Practical Considerations: Invest time in addressing practical aspects to create a more conducive environment:
Location: Choose a separate, private room if possible. If privacy is limited (e.g., in a hospital ward), use screens to create a more shielded area, offering a degree of visual privacy.
Attendees: Upon arrival, identify any visitors present with the patient. Respectfully ask the patient if they are comfortable having visitors present during the discussion, while being mindful that the patient may feel pressured to agree even if they prefer privacy. Offer the option to have a specific relative present if desired. For example: “Benjamin, we now have your test results. Would you prefer to discuss them now, or would you like a family member or friend to be here for support?”
Initiating the Discussion: Begin the conversation thoughtfully:
Ensure the patient is physically covered and comfortable.
Greet the patient by name and introduce yourself if you are not well-known to them.
Establish rapport by initiating with general, open-ended questions, such as “How are you feeling today?”. This shows concern, encourages patient engagement, and allows for a quick assessment of their current physical state before proceeding to sensitive topics. Address any immediate patient discomfort (e.g., pain, nausea) if possible before moving to the main discussion.
P – Assessing the Patient’s Perception:
Explore Existing Understanding: Before delivering any explanations or bad news, use open-ended questions to understand the patient’s current perception of their medical situation. This step is vital for:
Correcting any misunderstandings or inaccurate information the patient may have.
Tailoring the delivery of news to the patient’s existing level of understanding and expectations.
Establish Baseline Knowledge: It is crucial to ascertain what the patient already knows about their condition, their perceived level of seriousness, and their expectations for the future. Utilize starting phrases such as:
“What is your understanding of your illness at this point?”
“What have doctors or nurses previously told you about your condition?”
“Have you had any concerns that this illness might be serious?”
Active Listening is Key: Carefully listen to the patient’s responses. Their answers provide valuable insights into:
Their understanding of the medical situation.
Their emotional state and current level of anxiety or concern.
Their educational level and ability to comprehend medical terminology.
Their vocabulary and preferred communication style.
This information will guide you in tailoring subsequent explanations and communication to be appropriately targeted and sensitive.
I – Obtaining the Patient’s Invitation:
Information Preferences: Determine the patient’s preferred level of detail and how much information they want to receive regarding their diagnosis and prognosis.
Level of Information Desired: Recognize that the key question is not simply “Do you want to know?” but rather “At what level of detail do you want to know what is happening?”. Most patients have an inherent sense when things are not progressing well, particularly if they have not received positive updates.
Empowering Patient Choice: By directly asking about their information preferences, you are empowering the patient to exercise control over how and how much information they receive.
Research-Backed Approach: Studies indicate that the majority of patients prefer full disclosure, although they may not want all details upfront. Establishing their information preference at the outset respects patient autonomy and allows for individualized communication.
Phrasing the Invitation: Use open and respectful phrasing to inquire about their information preferences:
“Are you the type of person who prefers to know all the details about your illness?”
“Would you like me to explain the diagnosis to you in detail, even if it involves serious findings?”
“Or would you prefer that I discuss the situation more directly with your family or a designated family member?”
By offering these options, even if the patient initially expresses a desire not to hear full details, you are:Not completely cutting off communication.
Clearly communicating your willingness to maintain ongoing contact and support, even if the initial conversation focuses on broader aspects rather than intricate medical details.
K – Giving Knowledge and Information:
Facilitate Information Processing: Communicate information in a way that aids patient comprehension and emotional processing.
Use a Warning Shot: If the bad news is unexpected or particularly difficult, preface your remarks with a gentle warning to prepare the patient emotionally. Examples include:
“I’m very sorry to have to tell you that…”
“Unfortunately, I have some difficult news to share with you today…”
Plain Language and Avoiding Jargon: Use clear, plain language that is easily understandable to the patient. Avoid medical jargon and technical terminology. For instance, use everyday words like “spread” instead of medical terms like “metastasized”.
Small Chunks of Information: Break down complex information into smaller, manageable segments. Use short sentences and deliver information in digestible portions.
Periodic Checking for Understanding: Regularly check for patient understanding throughout the information-sharing process. Pause frequently and ask clarifying questions to ensure they are following and comprehending the information being provided.
Narrative Approach: When sharing information, consider using a narrative approach, particularly if the news is unexpected. This may involve:
Starting with a “warning shot” phrase to prepare the patient.
Pausing briefly to allow for initial emotional processing.
Describing events leading up to the current situation in a step-by-step manner, providing context and a clearer picture of the progression of their condition.
Multimodal Communication: Enhance understanding and retention by using various communication methods:
Verbal Explanation: Provide clear and concise verbal explanations.
Repetition: Repeat important points and key information as needed to reinforce understanding.
Visual Aids: Utilize diagrams, written notes, or visual aids if appropriate to illustrate medical concepts or treatment plans, catering to different learning styles.
E – Addressing the Patient’s Emotions with Empathic Responses:
Emotional Recognition: Actively identify and acknowledge the patient’s primary emotional response to the bad news. Recognize that a wide range of emotions are normal and valid reactions to difficult news.
Empathic Statements: Express empathy and validation by using continuer statements that reflect your understanding of their emotional experience. Examples include:
“I can only imagine how upsetting and scary this news must be for you.”
“It’s understandable to feel shocked and overwhelmed right now.”
“This is a lot to take in, and it’s okay to feel whatever you are feeling.”
Common Patient Reactions: Be prepared for a variety of emotional reactions from patients and families. Common responses to bad news include:
Disbelief and shock
Denial and resistance to accepting the news
Fear and anxiety about the future and implications of the diagnosis
Anger and blame directed at oneself, healthcare providers, or others
Guilt and self-reproach
Hope, sometimes unrealistic hope for a cure or positive outcome
Relief, in some cases, if the diagnosis explains previously unexplained symptoms or suffering
Despair and profound sadness
Depression and feelings of hopelessness
Responding to Emotions: The ultimate success of breaking bad news depends on how the patient reacts emotionally and, crucially, how you, as the healthcare provider, respond to those reactions. Your empathetic and supportive response is critical in helping the patient begin to cope with difficult news.
S – Strategy and Summary:
Present Options and Plan of Action: In the final stage, shift the focus towards planning and strategizing for the future. Present a clear and actionable plan, outlining:
Treatment options available, even if curative treatment is not possible.
Palliative care options to manage symptoms, improve comfort, and enhance quality of life.
Ensure that the information presented about treatment or palliative care options is directly aligned with:
The patient’s knowledge of their condition.
Their expectations for treatment and care.
Their hopes and values.
Reduce Anxiety and Uncertainty: Providing a clear strategy and plan of action, even when facing a difficult prognosis, can significantly lessen the patient’s anxiety and reduce feelings of uncertainty and helplessness.
Organize and Plan for the Future: Focus on organizing and planning for the patient’s future care, which involves:
Synthesizing your understanding of the patient’s wishes, values, and preferences.
Integrating the medical reality of their condition and prognosis.
Collaboratively developing a comprehensive plan of management that addresses both medical and psychosocial needs.
Address Problem List and Reinforce Coping:
Acknowledge Patient Problems: Begin by demonstrating an understanding of the patient’s immediate concerns and “problem list” through active listening and reflecting back their stated concerns. This shows you have grasped their individual situation.
Honest and Realistic Outlook: Maintain honesty and transparency while avoiding being unrealistically optimistic about the future. Present a balanced and realistic perspective to build trust and avoid future disillusionment.
Formulate and Explain a Strategy: Collaboratively formulate and explain a clear plan or strategy with the patient, which should encompass:
“Preparing for the worst”: Addressing potential challenges and planning for contingencies.
“Hoping for the best”: Maintaining a sense of hope and focusing on achievable goals, such as symptom control and quality of life.
Identify and Reinforce Coping Strategies: Throughout the planning process, actively identify and reinforce the patient’s existing coping strategies and strengths. Acknowledge their resilience and past coping mechanisms.
Incorporate Support Systems: Actively identify and incorporate other sources of support for the patient into the plan. This may include:
Referral to other healthcare professionals, such as specialists or palliative care teams.
Involving close family members and friends in the care plan and support network.
Connecting the patient with community resources, support groups, or spiritual advisors.
Contract for Future Contact: Before concluding the consultation, establish a clear “contract for the future” to ensure ongoing communication and support. This includes:
Scheduling a follow-up appointment for continued discussion, monitoring, and support.
Providing clear instructions on whom the patient can contact and how to reach you or other members of the healthcare team if questions or concerns arise before the next scheduled appointment.
BREAKS Protocol for Breaking Bad News
BREAKS is another helpful mnemonic protocol designed to simplify and structure the process of breaking bad news, emphasizing empathy and patient-centered communication. BREAKS stands for:
Background (B):
Thorough Assessment: Before initiating the conversation, thoroughly assess crucial aspects of the patient’s situation, including:
Current disease status and prognosis.
Patient’s emotional well-being and psychological state.
Existing coping mechanisms and resilience factors.
Educational level and health literacy to tailor communication appropriately.
Social support system and family dynamics.
Cultural and ethnic considerations that may influence their understanding and response to bad news.
Create Conducive Environment: Prepare the physical and emotional space for the conversation:
Turn off or silence mobile phones to minimize interruptions and show respect for the patient’s time and emotions.
Maintain consistent eye contact to build rapport and demonstrate attentiveness.
If helpful, arrange for a coworker to be present to assist with note-taking or transcribing key points of the conversation, freeing you to focus fully on the patient.
Rapport (R):
Establish Positive Connection: Focus on establishing a positive and empathetic rapport with the patient.
Avoid Patronizing Tone: Ensure your communication is respectful and avoids any hint of condescension or patronizing language.
Build Trust: Foster trust through genuine empathy, active listening, and a caring demeanor.
Open-Ended Questions: Initiate the conversation with open-ended questions about the patient’s current condition and how they are feeling. This shows you are interested in their perspective and well-being beyond just delivering information.
Assess Readiness: If you sense the patient may be unprepared or resistant to receiving bad news immediately, allow them to initially discuss their general well-being and comfort level before transitioning to more sensitive topics.
Explore (E):
Patient’s Pre-existing Knowledge: Begin by exploring what the patient already knows and understands about their illness. This is a less abrupt and more patient-centered approach than directly breaking bad news.
Confirm, Don’t Abruptly Break: Frame this step as confirming their existing understanding, rather than suddenly dropping unexpected bad news.
Discuss Understanding: Engage the patient in a discussion about:
Their understanding of their illness and its progression.
Their comprehension of the diagnosis and its implications.
Any potential conflicts or discrepancies between their beliefs or expectations and the medical diagnosis.
Family Involvement (with Consent): If the patient consents, involve significant others (family members, caregivers) in the decision-making process, respecting patient autonomy while including their support network.
Announce (A):
Warning Shot: Provide a “warning shot” or gentle preface to soften the initial impact of the bad news. This prepares the patient emotionally for difficult information.
Clear and Direct Language: When delivering the news, use clear, straightforward language that is easily understood, avoiding complex medical jargon or technical terms.
Seek Consent: Before explicitly announcing the diagnosis or prognosis, verbally seek the patient’s consent to proceed with sharing the information, reinforcing their control in the conversation.
Mirror Emotions: Pay attention to the patient’s emotional cues and “mirror” or reflect back their emotions to establish a deeper connection and demonstrate empathy. Acknowledge and validate their feelings, reflecting back emotions like:
Embarrassment
Agony
Fear
Kindling (K):
Acknowledge Varied Reactions: Recognize and understand that patients will react to bad news in diverse ways. Be prepared for a range of emotional responses, such as:
Tears and intense sadness.
Silence and withdrawal.
Denial and disbelief.
Allow Emotional Space: Provide ample space and time for the patient to express their emotions without interruption or judgment.
Active Listening: Ensure active listening throughout the patient’s emotional response. Engage them with open-ended questions to encourage them to verbalize their feelings and recount their understanding of the situation.
Avoid Unrealistic Hope: Refrain from offering unrealistic or false treatment options or overly optimistic reassurances that are not medically sound.
Tailored Responses: Tailor your responses and support to the individual patient’s specific emotional reactions, questions, and concerns.
Summarize (S):
Session Conclusion: Conclude the session by providing a clear and concise summary of the key points discussed during the conversation.
Address Patient Concerns: Reiterate and directly address the patient’s specific concerns and questions that have arisen during the discussion.
Emphasize Future Plans: Shift the focus towards the future by emphasizing:
Next steps in treatment and care.
Practical aspects of managing their condition.
Emotional support resources available.
Written Summary (Optional): Offer to provide a written summary of the key points discussed, particularly for anxious patients who may have difficulty retaining verbal information.
24/7 Availability: Reassure the patient of your ongoing availability and encourage them to call at any time, for any reason, if they have further questions or concerns.
Maintain Optimistic Outlook: Maintain a realistically optimistic outlook, focusing on achievable goals like symptom management and quality of life, while acknowledging the seriousness of the situation.
Family Communication (If Requested): Offer assistance in sharing the information with other family members if the patient requests or consents to this.
Schedule Review Date: Set a specific date for a follow-up review appointment to ensure ongoing care and support.
Safety Check: Before the patient leaves the room, ensure their immediate safety and well-being, addressing any immediate emotional distress or safety concerns.
Checklist for Breaking Bad News (Illness-Related)
A checklist format can be a helpful aide-memoire for healthcare professionals when breaking bad news:
Step | Description |
1 | Prepare thoroughly. Ensure you have a complete understanding of all relevant facts and medical information before meeting with the patient and/or family. |
2 | Introduce yourself clearly, allow others present to introduce themselves, and explicitly state their relationship to the patient for clarity and context. |
3 | Review existing knowledge: Determine how much the patient already understands about their condition by asking for a summary of events in their own words. Avoid making assumptions about their level of understanding. |
4 | Check information preferences: Explicitly ask if the patient and/or family want more detailed information and, if so, how much detail they prefer to receive at this time. Offer an update but also give them a clear option to stop the information flow at any point if they become overwhelmed. |
5 | Provide a warning shot: Indicate clearly that the information you are about to share is serious or potentially difficult to hear. Allow for a brief pause after this warning to allow the patient to mentally and emotionally prepare for the news. |
6 | Present bad news directly and concisely: Deliver the bad news in a direct yet compassionate manner, using plain language and avoiding complex medical terms or jargon to minimize misunderstanding and ensure clarity. |
7 | Allow silence and observe: After delivering the bad news, sit quietly and patiently. Allow ample time for the patient and/or family to respond emotionally and process the information without feeling rushed. |
8 | Encourage verbalization: If there is a prolonged silence after delivering bad news, gently encourage the patient to share their thoughts, feelings, and reactions. Use open-ended prompts if needed. |
9 | Promote emotional expression: Actively encourage the expression of feelings, whether sadness, anger, fear, or disbelief. Provide a supportive and non-judgmental environment where all emotions are validated and accepted as normal responses to difficult news. |
10 | Validate and Regulate Feelings: Confirm and validate the patient’s feelings, acknowledging their emotional experience as understandable and appropriate in the context of the bad news. Offer personal statements of empathy, if comfortable and genuine, to further establish connection and understanding. |
11 | Listen to concerns and ask clarifying questions: Actively listen to the patient’s specific concerns and anxieties. Ask open-ended questions such as: “What are your main concerns right now?” or “What does this news mean to you personally?”. This helps you understand their perspective and address their individual needs. |
12 | Provide further information (if desired): If the patient requests more detailed information, provide it systematically, in small chunks, and using simple, non-medical language. Continuously check for understanding and adjust your explanations as needed. |
13 | Assess for self-harm risk: As part of a comprehensive assessment, carefully evaluate the patient’s mental state and specifically assess for any thoughts of self-harm or suicidal ideation. Take immediate and appropriate action if any risk is identified, following established protocols for suicide risk management. |
14 | Consider additional support systems: Think about involving other members of the healthcare team or support services if needed. Consider whether involving social workers, spiritual or religious leaders, or other relevant support systems would be beneficial for the patient and family, offering holistic care. |
15 | Session wrap-up and summary: Wind down the session by providing a clear summary of the key issues that have been discussed. Reiterate the main points and collaboratively discuss the next steps in terms of treatment, care, and support planning with the patient and/or family. |
16 | Express ongoing availability: Make yourself readily available for further discussions and questions about the illness or care plan as needed. Clearly communicate your ongoing support and commitment to the patient. |
17 | Provide follow-up plan: Explicitly provide a concrete follow-up plan, outlining the next steps, scheduling a follow-up appointment, and ensuring the patient knows how to reach you or the healthcare team if additional questions or concerns arise in the interim. |
Patient Reactions to Receiving Bad News
Patient reactions to bad news are diverse and can encompass a wide spectrum of emotional and behavioral responses. Common reactions often align with stages of grief and bereavement and may include:
Emotional Responses:
Crying and tearfulness
Denial and disbelief, refusing to accept the reality of the news
Shock and numbness, feeling emotionally detached or overwhelmed
Anger and blame, directed at oneself, healthcare providers, or external factors
Guilt and self-reproach
Sadness and profound grief
Anxiety and worry about the future, treatment, or implications of the news
Bargaining, attempting to negotiate for a different outcome
A sense of profound loss and emptiness
Paradoxically, in some situations, relief, particularly if the bad news provides an explanation for previously unexplained symptoms or suffering.
Fear, apprehension about the future, pain, or unknown aspects of their condition.
Handling Difficult Questions from Patients and Families
Effectively addressing difficult questions requires specific communication strategies. Some helpful hints (Faulkner, 1998) include:
Explore Question Rationale: Before directly answering a difficult question, first check the underlying reason or motivation behind the question. Ask: “What makes you ask that question right now?” or “What are you hoping to understand by asking that?”. This helps uncover the patient’s real concerns and allows for a more targeted and relevant response.
Seek Patient’s Perspective: Show genuine interest in the patient’s own ideas and understanding of the situation. Ask: “How does it appear to you?” or “What are your thoughts on this?”. This encourages patient participation and provides insights into their current perspective.
Confirm and Elaborate: When appropriate, confirm aspects of the patient’s understanding and elaborate further to provide additional information or clarification. For example, “You are probably right in that…” or “That’s a very insightful observation because…”.
Acknowledge Uncertainty: Be prepared and comfortable to admit when you genuinely do not know the answer to a question. Honesty builds trust. It is okay to say, “I don’t know the answer to that right now, but I can try to find out for you” or “That’s a question we can explore further together as we move forward.”
Express Empathy: Acknowledge and validate the patient’s emotional experience, particularly when questions reflect feelings of unfairness, injustice, or distress. Use empathic statements like: “Yes, I can understand why this must seem incredibly unfair to you” or “It’s natural to feel this way given the circumstances.”
Handling Your Own Emotions as a Healthcare Professional
Breaking bad news is emotionally demanding for healthcare professionals as well. It is important to develop strategies for managing your own emotional well-being in these situations. Helpful approaches include:
Self-Awareness: Cultivate self-awareness of your own emotional responses, personal limitations, and coping mechanisms when dealing with emotionally challenging situations. Recognize your own emotional boundaries and triggers.
Team Support: Utilize team support systems within your workplace. Debrief with colleagues, seek peer support, and engage in team discussions to process emotional burdens and share experiences related to breaking bad news.
Clinical Supervision: Seek clinical supervision or mentorship from experienced colleagues or supervisors. Supervision provides a structured space for reflection, guidance, and emotional processing of challenging patient interactions, including breaking bad news.
Reflective Practice: Engage in reflective practice regularly to process your experiences, emotions, and communication techniques related to breaking bad news. Journaling, self-reflection exercises, or mindfulness practices can aid in emotional processing and skill development.
Continuous Skill Development: Commit to ongoing development of your communication skills, specifically focusing on techniques for breaking bad news, empathy, and emotional support. Attend workshops, training sessions, and seek resources to enhance your communication competence in these sensitive areas.
Remember Professional Boundaries: While empathy is essential, remember to maintain professional boundaries. Acknowledge and validate the patient’s pain, but also remember that it is not your bad news to carry personally. Maintain a healthy emotional distance while providing compassionate care